tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post2680428871359549478..comments2022-11-03T11:41:52.632+00:00Comments on Random Pearls Of Wisdom: Not So Happy DaysRandom Pearls Of Wisdomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09578615842958988257noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-43579512385698433702012-03-27T22:08:14.525+01:002012-03-27T22:08:14.525+01:00No. Its another great example of perspective where...No. Its another great example of perspective where one person has expectations and the other is on a completely different wavelength at that moment - much like autistic thinking ! ;-) we will stumble our way through in the end, sometimes it seems others have it so easy though!Random Pearls Of Wisdomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09578615842958988257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-11078122170314736572012-03-27T21:31:58.849+01:002012-03-27T21:31:58.849+01:00Its funny, the female mind. I can't forget th...Its funny, the female mind. I can't forget the time my husband walked away, leaving me in a wheelchair after having his son and the porter telling him to give me a hug or kiss. Fancy a porter telling him to do that? He hates it when I bring it up but really he could have been more affectionate. That was 13 years ago. OK, so that wasnt a helpful comment more of a male v female issue but just to say its hard work being married and raising children, particularly ones with special needs. I sometimes wonder if I'll ever get through this in one piece. DebDeb at aspie in the familyhttp://www.aspieinthefamily.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-58354357576630256382012-03-27T14:37:13.726+01:002012-03-27T14:37:13.726+01:00Yeah, I think you do get to that point where it al...Yeah, I think you do get to that point where it all seems to implode and then the air clears and you get back on with it all again lolRandom Pearls Of Wisdomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09578615842958988257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-46842326895197826762012-03-27T14:35:46.120+01:002012-03-27T14:35:46.120+01:00It is tough trying to spread yourself thin, time i...It is tough trying to spread yourself thin, time is demanding and I can see what you mean, probably explains a lot ;-)Random Pearls Of Wisdomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09578615842958988257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-80132174817019585442012-03-27T10:43:01.735+01:002012-03-27T10:43:01.735+01:00Sometimes it's bloody hard work juggling pleas...Sometimes it's bloody hard work juggling pleasing everyone - the kids, spouse and work folk too. My experience is when it rains it pours- everything goes tits up at the same time just to really grind me down. But when things go back to a happy medium I appreciate them all the more :D<br /><br />That was a bit pointless and not much actual help but ho hum!<br />*huggawugga*Mammasaurushttp://mammasaurus.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-17745290812570789072012-03-26T23:46:28.931+01:002012-03-26T23:46:28.931+01:00Sometimes I think that it is easier to cope as a s...Sometimes I think that it is easier to cope as a single parent. I simply have no time to attend to the needs of a partner as well as three children, two with special need. Hope things improve for you and your relationship and thanks for sharing with Love All BlogsLooking for Blue Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10010049814419812468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-70833337365853261082012-03-26T15:24:33.960+01:002012-03-26T15:24:33.960+01:00thanks for commenting, I can highly recommend wine...thanks for commenting, I can highly recommend wine too. You'll know that some days are better than others and it can be like a roller-coaster ;-)Random Pearls Of Wisdomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09578615842958988257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-88859973258851285212012-03-26T09:25:07.084+01:002012-03-26T09:25:07.084+01:00but then i might be teaching my granny to suck egg...but then i might be teaching my granny to suck eggs too - you know what to do that's best for you...h0peful mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03065600149249551888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071210236050261314.post-89345777224416173002012-03-26T09:23:41.873+01:002012-03-26T09:23:41.873+01:00having a child with special needs puts an extraord...having a child with special needs puts an extraordinary about of pressure on our day to day living and sometimes I don't know how we get through the day with work - and the pressures of that - the extreme sleep deprivation and the constant "we have a disabled child", but we do because we choose to. more importantly though we try and get a date night in every month and a night away every other month - we kind of need to keep "us" as strong as possible - with a bottle or two of wine!<br />hope that work is better today - good luck with your boss!h0peful mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03065600149249551888noreply@blogger.com